Sex therapist Vanessa Marin is here to take the intimidation out of intimacy. With 20 years of experience as a licensed psychotherapist and millions of views online, Vanessa and her husband, Xander, have become a go-to couple for real, shame-free conversations about sex. In this episode, Vic opens up about her own sexy journey as they dive into how to communicate with your partner, reduce shame, and strengthen emotional and physical connection. From why a six-second kiss matters to what intentional initiation actually looks like, this episode is full of game-changing tools to make you feel more comfortable and confident in the bedroom.
Instagram: @vanessaandxander
Website: vmtherapy.com
Read: Eight Dates by John Gottman, MD
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Celebrity makeup artist and Vic’s bestie, Michelle DeLorenzo, aka the talent behind Vic’s glam and go-to girl for stars like Lauryn Bosstick and Tinx, joins the pod to talk about manifesting dream opportunities in your career, friendship in your twenties, and rebuilding your connection to self (especially after a breakup). As one of Vic’s best friends, Michelle shares what makes their bond so special, the power of solo dates, and how trusting her intuition led her to the life she once only dreamed of. Whether you've been through a breakup recently, are curious about how to take your business to the next level, or are just craving a fun convo with besties, tune in to hear how supportive friendships can inspire you and carry you through anything life throws your way.
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Vic is reflecting on turning 28 and the mindset shifts helping her feel more aligned, grounded, and true to herself. From exiting her hustle era and protecting her energy, to pulling back on people-pleasing and rewriting her self-talk, this solo episode is an unfiltered check-in on what’s changed, and what’s finally clicking. Vic shares why she skipped a big birthday celebration, how she’s building deeper self-trust, and the small but powerful ways she’s being kinder to herself this year. Tune in for honest reflections on getting older, slowing down, and giving yourself permission to be imperfect.
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Your twenties are a time of major change and transition, and here to help you navigate it all are Krista Williams and Lindsey Simcik - founders, authors, and co-hosts of the Almost 30 podcast. In this soul-nourishing episode, Krista and Lindsey share what their Saturn Return taught them about becoming the most authentic version of themselves, and help Vic work through what’s surfacing in her own Saturn Return. From inner child healing to evolving friendships, they explore how to tune into your own energy, recognize patterns, and extend yourself grace through growth. Because the truth is, change isn’t something to fear, it’s the exact thing that shapes you into who you’re meant to be. Tune in for big sister wisdom and a reminder that you’re not behind - you’re becoming.
Book Pre-Order: Almost 30: A Definitive Guide to a Life You Love for the Next Decade and Beyond by Krista Williams and Lindsey Simcik
Instagram: @almost30podcast
Website: almost30podcast.com
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My Live Therapy Session with Gabby Bernstein!
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If perfectionism is your favorite weakness, this one’s for you. Dr. Ellen Hendriksen, clinical psychologist and author of How to Be Enough: Self-Acceptance for Self-Critics and Perfectionists, joins Vic to unpack the roots of perfectionism, how it shows up in everyday life, and why so many of us feel like we have to earn our worth. They explore the difference between healthy ambition and toxic self-criticism, how to find that middle ground where you’re still growing without burning out, and what it really means to practice self-compassion. Vic opens up about her own struggles with perfectionism—from how playing D1 volleyball enhanced her inner critic to why she regrets overplanning Max’s 30th birthday—and shares the tools she’s learning to prioritize presence over performance. Whether you overthink, overachieve, or feel like you’re never quite doing enough, this conversation will help you let go of the pressure and embrace the messiness of being human.
Website: ellenhendriksen.com
Instagram: @ellen_hendriksen
Book: How to Be Enough: Self-Acceptance for Self-Critics and Perfectionists by Dr. Ellen Hendriksen
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Have you ever wondered how Vic started The Hidden Opponent? Or what it really takes to launch and run a non-profit? This episode is your crash course! Vic shares why she founded THO, how Kobe Bryant played a key role, and the real behind-the-scenes of building a movement for student-athlete mental health. She also introduces THO’s new CEO, their Avengers-level Board of Directors, and gives a sneak peek at the adidas x The Hidden Opponent collab — out now! If you’re passionate about mental health or want to make a difference, this episode will leave you fired up to take action.
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Learn more: thehiddenopponent.org
Follow: @thehiddenopponent
Vic’s TEDx Talk: The Hidden Opponent: Student Athletes And Mental Health
Read: Geese Are Never Swans by Kobe Bryant
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Australian-born creator, actress, and entrepreneur Cartia Mallan joins the pod for a vulnerable and reflective convo about anxiety, identity, content creation, grief, and growing up online. They dive into boundary setting with friends, social media burnout, staying true to yourself in a trend-obsessed world, and how to rebuild self-trust when you’ve been over-giving. Cartia also opens up about navigating grief after the loss of her father and the complex emotions that come with it. This ep is core Real Pod: healing, relatable, and packed with perspective shifts you didn’t know you needed.
Connect with Cartia:
Instagram: @cartiamallan
YouTube: Cartia Mallan
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